Peter Finch asked: Stories about foreigners, either boyfriends or fiances being duped by Filipina girls will not make the eyes of those who listen go round as dinner plates. Not anymore, anyway. Everybody knows these stories are real and not made up. In the first place, your signing up in a dating site to meet Cebu girls is a risk which could have a positive or negative result. You took the plunge just the same and you were given access to thousands of profiles of Filipinas who are available and looking for partners from another country. First of all check whether the dating site you signed up in is genuine. There are some who will send you emails supposedly from attractive ladies but are actually from scammers who will do all they can to milk money from you. But although the dating sign is genuine, the girl you are corresponding with may be a scammer so the responsibility of finding a true mate is still on your shoulders. Here are a few tips to make you alert to spot scammers: Money is a key object to know a scam. As you get to know her, she may send subtle messages at first how hard up she is, that she can hardly pay the hourly rates at the internet cafes just to chat with you. If you start sending her money, you can not believe how fast her financial needs arise. You may find yourself paying for repairs on their roof leak, dental extraction, medical check up, tuition fees, house rent money for her sister, medicine for her neighbor, a new computer or the latest model of cell phone to be able to communicate with you always. She falls in love with your after a couple of emails, and from then on writes to you everyday telling of her genuine love and how she can not wait to meet you very soon. She may then talk about visas, immigration, and passports. Be alert for this. She does not want to call her and tells you she does not have a phone, either landline or cell phone. If she has a mobile phone, trying to call her at any time can also determine whether she is hiding something from you or not. Using webcam during your chat sessions is also a way to see her and communicate with her. You can see her expression as she reads your messages. Scammers come in different kinds. These include those who are scamming for money, the lady-boys, “damaged goods” include: un-wed mothers, ex-prostitutes, troubled girls, religious fanatics, men haters, daddy’s girls, etc., husband seekers, chit-chatters and party girls, who want to go out on the town to expensive places they can not afford (at your expense of course), and a few who are really paranoid of foreigners. The only consolation is that scammers make up at least a very small percentage of the genuine Filipina ladies who sign up in dating sites to find a future partner. Follow your instinct. If something feels wrong, it usually is. Do not allow a few rotten tomatoes stop you from finding happiness online, just be careful and on the alert.

Filipina Kisses asked: Dating a Filipina girl requires something more than the usual. Why is that? Because, you also have to learn her Filipino language! If not fluently, then just try your very best to learn a few Tagalog dating phrases that comes in handy during special moments. Do not worry about trying to figure out what to say to Filipina mail order brides. Next time you will communicate with Filipina girls in Manila, be it online or by phone or face to face, you will have your list of Tagalog dating phrases in your hand or memorized in your head, if you can do that. You can use Tagalog dating phrases to melt a Filipina dream bride in Manila. She will be very impressed and really delighted that you find the time to learn Tagalog phrases to woe her. So, here is a very good Filipina dating tip, learn some Tagalog dating phrases: You are beautiful – Maganda ka You are very beautiful – Napakaganda mo You have a beautiful smile – Napakaganda ng ngiti mo You have a nice voice – Maganda ang boses mo What do you like? – Ano ang gusto mo? Where do you want to go? – Saan mo gustong pumunta What is your favorite food? – Ano ang paborito mong pagkain? What drink do you like? – Ano ang gusto mong inumin? I like you very much – Gustong gusto kita Take care – Mag ingat ka I miss you – Miss kita I miss you very much – Miss na miss kita Will you be my girlfriend? – Gusto kitang maging nobya ko I love you – Mahal kita I love you very much – Mahal na mahal kita I am in love with you – Iniibig kita I want to court you – Gusto kitang ligawan I want to marry you – Gusto kitang pakasalan Will you marry me? – Pakakasalan mo ba ako? Marry me – Pakasalan mo ako Here are also some basic everyday greetings in Tagalog language: Good morning – Magandang umaga Good noon – Magandang tanghali Good afternoon – Magandang hapon Good evening – Magandang gabi Happy trip – Magandang pagbyahe Filipina girls in Manila will be fascinated by you in no time at all. Knowing Tagalog language will be worth it, for sure! Just remember that by the time you have already spoken a few Tagalog words, you will thank your lucky stars for doing your online research very deligently, and finding this article. Want to meet single Filipina girls online? Visit this Filipina dating site: FilipinaKisses.com