Modern as we are today, especially in the western countries, there are not much to be found of what we call long-term relationships or long-term commitment. With the modern lifestyle, men and women are already focused on their careers and other things rather than raising a family. They prefer the “no stings attached” relationships, but the pleasure it gives them is only temporary or superficial. But that’s the way some choose it to be. However, there are still men who seek stable, long-term, married life; enjoying their wife and children. These men make the mail order bride work. They often are looking for women from other countries that share the same feelings as they are. Popular to western men are foreign brides from Europe, particularly from Russia, Belarus, Ukraine and Georgia. Mail order bride has become a phenomenon. Success stories here and there; from agencies as well as from the actual people who had benefited from the services. However, before you are overwhelmed with these stories, a word of caution – investigate first before choosing. There are fakes as well as scams around. So, it is important to confirm the authenticity of information before you engage into a transaction. Investigate and confirm. Do your own research, use our instincts and observe for signs of fraud. Sometimes, these scammers sense that you are desperate in your search and they would take advantage of this weakness. This is where they can start on you. So, be aware and be observant. There are a lot of ways to be scammed, like some girls just want to extort money from you, others would just use you as a vehicle to migrate or move to you country and many more. Here are some signs and also steps how to overcome or confirm authenticity of the information you are getting. 1.      A picture was sent to you from a match. A scammer will send a picture of somebody else and not her. To counter this, you may request to chat using web cam. This would confirm if the picture and the one communicating to you is the same. Also, observe her responses when you request to communicate thru web cam. 2.      Another situation that you should note for is during a conversation after a while of communication with each other. She will express love and say many lovely things to you. However, you have to be very observant and vigilant when you discuss about money and visa. Feel if she is authentic or just using you. 3.      After several days or months of communication, scammers will storm you of fake stories like how she become broke, that her family cannot afford the basic necessities of living or even her family is urging her to marry a rich man to uplift their living conditions and other depressing stories. What’s the reason behind all these stories? She wants to get your sympathy and eventually gets you to send her financial support. Naturally, if you are already in an ongoing long distance relationship with her, you will be obliged or urged to do so, however, you need to really discern if she is telling the truth. Of course, all of us wants to help a person in need, however, do not be scammed. You want to show sincere feelings by helping, ensure also that she is really in need and sincere of her feelings to you. 4.      Further, if you are already sending her financial support, notice if her needs increase every time you discuss about it. Some more depressing stories are brought up. Again, if you feel that the burden of providing for her family and more are on your shoulders, think again. She should be the only responsibility to you, at least now. If these stories are untrue, then maybe she is using your money somewhere else. Be aware of how she uses the money you send her. Look for signs of somehow letting you know where she used it, maybe showing bills or pictures or other proofs. Straight women know the meaning of liquidation however informal it is. They know that they are handling somebody else’s money. While it is true that today it is easy to meet somebody you choose to become your wife thru the Internet, it is also very true that these because it is virtual in nature it is not free from scams and frauds. These are just some hints to prevent you from being victimized. Prevention is better than cure. Ignorance excuses no one. You are old enough to know what you are doing and you are responsible for your actions. Though Russian and Ukrainian women are on the top list as the most preferred mail order brides, not all of them are fraud. You can still find that loving, elegant yet family oriented Russian bride.

Robert asked:


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Robert asked:


Dating over the Internet has been one of the most popular way of meeting your life partner. There are a lot of websites that profile women of different age and background that you can choose from. And one of the most popular women that marriage agencies feature are from Russia.

So, if you are up to dating a Russian woman, establishing a long-term romantic relationship with her and eventually, spending the rest of your life with her, then, here are some facts about Russian Brides in terms of the qualities that they are looking for in a man, their motivation for marriage as well as other dating habits.

More and more Russian Brides are highly educated. Thus, they are able to grasp the English language and adapt to a different culture. And like other women who are serious about looking for love, Best Russian Girls are not there to marry foreign men just to get a green card or to better her own life. More and more educated Russian Brides are able to look for work, though there is only about twenty five percent who are able to get a job that is related to their degree.

At the same time, Russian Brides are wise in choosing their potential partner. They are not out there to marry loser men as Russian Brides are searching for good-looking, financially stable and sound men.

Russian Brides deem love and security important in a marriage or in any romantic relationship. In fact, there are about thirty percent Russian Brides who are ready to marry men who they are in love with. Also, Russian Brides these days are very practical so, they search for men who are financially capable but the women do not force their husbands to support them solely.

Best Russian Girls prefer older men who are five to fifteen years older then them. This is the case as Russian Brides firmly believe that older men are more emotionally mature and they are able to raise a family.

If you want to get in touch with a Russian woman, state it in your first letter to her in the middle of yoru message and attach your recent photo. This way, she would immediately get to know you and she can decide if she is attracted to you or otherwise.

Also, handwritten letters are better than E-mail, though the latter is the easiest way to correspond with a Russian woman. And you can send in, let’s say, a gift to a Russian woman that you find attractive in order to impress her and she would think how thoughtful you are.

Lastly, while Russian dating is easy but you must always ensure that when you do correspond with not just a Russian woman but with other women, you must always reveal your true self. If you are not able to do so, this would backfire in a big way since there would come a time that the woman will ask you to meet her in person. If you said that you have the height and the built of Brad Pitt but you are the complete opposite, then, that is not very nice.

Anyway, it is in the writer’s hope that you will find your perfect Russian woman. Good luck in your search!

Is it possible that after a few bad experiences with local women, you are now considering the possibility of taking an overseas bride? Maybe you have a taste for adventure or are intrigued by what is unfamiliar. Whatever the reason, below are some answers to questions you may have. 1. Are overseas brides only for losers who can’t find partners in their own countries? Of course not. It is an unfortunate truth that overseas brides sometimes attract the sorts of men that nobody back home wants, but they represent only a fraction of the men who choose overseas brides. Don’t forget that a couple of decades ago people considered “computer dating” to be a way for nerds to find dates – but today it has become a popular and accepted way to find a partner. 2. Are mail order brides all money hungry green card hounds? Mostly not. Be careful of course – it IS a jungle out there. Just as loser men seek “mail order brides”, so do scamstresses see Western men as walking green cards (with luck they’ll all end up married to the losers). You should at least consider the services on an international matchmaking agency rather than going it alone on the free Internet sites, because if they’re reputable, then part of their fees go towards weeding out the scammers. 3. What do these women want, anyway? The good ones want the same thing local women want -home, family, children, and love. As for the bad ones – well, need I even go into it? The point is that there are good ones out there. 4. Why are these women looking abroad for men? A lot of reasons: (i) They may be facing a life of poverty at home. (ii) Their culture may relegate women to a low social status – after all, in some cultures a wife is considered little more than a maid / nanny / baby factory. (iii) “Western guys look like movie stars” – I’m serious. Asia is the only part of the world where I get told I look like Mel Gibson. Well, we’re both white, but I’m fairly certain that’s about where the resemblance ends. But thanks anyway, Hollywood! . (iv) It’s cold at home! If you were a Russian woman, wouldn’t you have to seriously consider a proposal from a man who lived in Orlando?

Bob Miles asked:


1. Russia is more economically advanced than a lot of the third world countries where women seek overseas husbands. Many Russian women are already educated and successful, and thus they may not be seeking to immigrate for financial reasons. Thus, the thinking goes, their motivations are pure and they’re not so likely to leave you alone, confused and crying in the airport.

2. Word has it that men who seek mail order brides find Russian women more feminine than Western women. To hear them tell it, Russian women are more attractive than Western women. How much of this perception is real and how much of it is superficial “exotic appeal” remains to be seen is unclear at this point.

3. Most men who seek overseas brides are middle-aged or older, and young Russian women tend to be more open minded about marrying an older man compared to Western women. They tend to believe that older men treat their women better than young men do. For better or for worse, most men prefer beautiful women, and most men find younger women more beautiful. A middle-aged man can easily find a young and beautiful Russian woman much easier than in his home country.

4.Language: The United States is the most desired destination for most Russian mail order brides, and English language skills are spreading rapidly throughout Russia. DO remember, too, that mail order brides are probably more motivated than most to learn English, thus removing one of the greatest barriers to international matchmaking. Of course, complete fluency might be too much to expect, but once she gets to the US she will have the chance to practice daily. Who knows she might end up speaking English far more fluently than you’d like her to.

And let’s not forget, there is a certain type of American man who, for perhaps dubious motivations, would actually prefer a wife who can’t talk…